Monday, December 10, 2012

How to be a cool mum?

By Cristina Jaume


There's already a lot to cover when learning how to be the best mum you can be. But there are certain challenges a mother faces as a parent that are distinct from those of being a father. Here's how to overcome them and raise your child/children well.

Love your kids more than anything. It is important to show them love with hugs, kisses or maybe just an "I love you".

Be supportive, and never have a fantastic have a laugh at your kids interests, passions or friends. Understand that it's okay if your kid acts in a different way from you. Don't get mad because they have a different perspective to you.

Be able to acknowledge that something you did may have been wrong and don't be hesitant to say sorry. Generally comfortable yourself, evaluate the situation, determine what you did wrong and why. Then say sorry and explain how or why you operated the way you did to put the example first, showing them how to do it, and getting them used to say "I'm sorry".

Be patient. Try this approach to other problems. Being a mother is a little challenging sometimes. But keep your cool and try to stay patient. Stay calm; explain the practical reasons not to do something, and then why YOU don't want them to do something.

Don't be too much careful about money. Okay, so spending money day after day isn't the best way to do, but don't immediately say no to everything your kid asks you, neither avoid to buy everything you would like to your little ones. It is smooth relaxation to offer to your kids the best of you whenever you can. If you always say no in order to save money, you will be known as the "Tight Parent" later on, the one who never buys anything. Buy something little every now and then. Even offering to buy some candies or treats at a store can be good. Try to always find the best matches and reductions either in their toys and activities or clothing so that you can find the best products, clothing and provides with best expenses. Start with it visiting our MumsWay website.




About the Author: